Constancy and Change ...
Each time I travel to New Zealand I fill my suitcase with novels that I have read since the last visit. My sister, who lives in the North Island of New Zealand, does the same. One of the first things that my Mother, sister and I do on these family reunions is to have a little book fest.
One of the books my sister offered me this trip was a volume which highlighted the essences of many of the world's religions and philosophies.
The first chapter I read was entitled Constancy and Change.
You are made very aware of change when you visit your home town and see how your childhood home has shrunk...
when you stand next to your father - once a tall, strong, strapping, athletic and energetic fellow and notice that you now tower over him - a frail and unsteady old man
when you walk through the queue of deciduous trees that lined your bike route to school and see that their branches join in an arch over the sky
when your childhood playground, where you roller skated and cartwheeled has changed from being a suburb of boisterous young families with green lawns to becoming a dormitory suburb of university students whose priorities do not include mowing the grass and weeding the garden
when the city's bypasses and highways wrap and curl around your once quiet suburb, where you rode your bike safely and played tricky trackers with all the neighbourhood kids weaving through the summer streets, hot on the heels of a sunburnt pied piper
where nothing from your adolescent hangouts and the designated places you stopped to meet the high school boys after school, is recognisable and huge sprawling malls consume block after block of homes, vegetable gardens and trees.
But you are reminded of constancy when your Mother, hard of hearing and slow in pace, gives you the same love and affection and support that she has always shown you
and your Father asks the same kinds of curious questions of your life, adventures, enterprises and travels, that he has asked so many times before, but which show that he is interested and even a little proud of you; and compares your very different life to the one that he has lived, in another country, another age, another world and which, God willing, will continue for another little while.
Constancy and Change ~ the twin aspects of the single energy of the Life force.
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What beautiful illustrations!And a lot to think about.
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Lovely ...and it is often said life's only constant IS change.
ReplyDeleteSarah,
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and you have reminded me of the Serenity Prayer.
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
Amen.
--Reinhold Niebuhr
I often reminded clients of that first verse -
particularly:
'the wisdom to know the difference'
Hmm, Lovely post - insightful and sensitive.
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More then Beautiful Delwyn,Thank you.
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Mona,
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Poignant message. The woodblock prints are fabulous. And I think having a book fest is terrific, especially if you have similar taste.
ReplyDeleteDelwyn,
ReplyDeletewhat powerful and striking words! And those images match the thought-provoking concepts perfectly. You have exceptional taste, so elegant. It's always an educating trip here. Ciao
Meri,
ReplyDeleteWe do all seem to enjoy the same books, which is great with the cost of books here. An average soft paperback novel will set you back $25-30.
I have so many woodblock prints in my collection I had fun matching them with the text.
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Lola,
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Coming from someone whose writing I admire and respect, they are valued.
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What a great and clear way to explain these two concepts. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteElegant is the word,and inspirational,full of good vibes.Love it.Happy days to you too Delwyn
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The context of being with my parents in my childhood home seemed to define the meaning of those two words so clearly.
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Aleksandra
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Hello.
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Beautiful illustrations. I like them very much.
"Constancy and Change" really meaningful.
Thank you for sharing all these!
That was incredibly beautiful, Delwyn. I have no words. I was moved to tears in reaching the end and findig the mother and daughter embrace and your expressing the constancy of parental love. It all goes back to the yin and yang, doesn't it? The sun (constant, never fading) and the moon (changing as it reflects the sun/soul). Namaste, Margaret
ReplyDeleteMargaret,
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that you related to this post.
I am always concerned that my 'audience ' may not be interested in deeper stories. So it's reassuring that some of you out there are on the same wavelength.
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I have had a glimpse at your blog and am delighted at what I have seen so I will return shortly for a real read...
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Sounds like an interesting book! I love your philosophy too. Oh, and thank you for the info about the masks! Will be searching for some!
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wash those hands!!! Gargle!!! wear your mask on the trains...
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Brought a tear to my eye Delwyn! Very moving. As my own Father has passed away this reminded me of how he was. Always asking after me and caring. The prints a gorgeous, Thank you!
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ReplyDeleteI am sorry to hear that Pam. I hope it was a warm and happy tear...
Yes weren't the prints super - more of my extensive collection of Ukiyo-e and Rebecca Cool - An Au artist.
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Delwyn, I love your analogies to constancy & change. No matter where in the world one resides this, Constancy and Change, is universal. Such a thoughtful post... Lizzy
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