tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post1651213628407949884..comments2023-10-21T21:57:34.239+10:00Comments on a hazy moon: Machines and Machinations - a fine balanceDelwynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-72114274766383693872009-09-06T22:52:09.873+10:002009-09-06T22:52:09.873+10:00Hi, Delwyn,
I don't know how, but I missed se...Hi, Delwyn,<br /><br />I don't know how, but I missed seeing this post entirely until Steven mentioned it today on his blog. I'll comment more fully later, but for now, I wanted you to know that my cousin is Dan Gurney, of All American Racers fame. I am sure your beloved and he would love to meet. Perhaps they have met. Here's a link to a photo of one of Dan's AAR MOPAR Cudas:<br /><br />http://www.flickr.com/photos/splattergraphics/3313143916/Dan Gurneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11628603380292404658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-30549149496069219352009-07-25T14:21:32.689+10:002009-07-25T14:21:32.689+10:00Thank you Rosaria for your thoughtful comment.
It...Thank you Rosaria for your thoughtful comment.<br /><br />It does allow more joy to be returned to the pair doesn't it...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-9486699470773533042009-07-25T14:01:09.869+10:002009-07-25T14:01:09.869+10:00What a beautiful way to talk about each other'...What a beautiful way to talk about each other's passion and growth, and having freedom to explore without limits, and to share in each other's glorious joy.Rosaria Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03133147851332084180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-19010521605815017972009-07-25T12:55:38.749+10:002009-07-25T12:55:38.749+10:00Hi there Cyndy
I will pass that info on to Belove...Hi there Cyndy<br /><br />I will pass that info on to Beloved when her returns from loading up his cars. He will be interested...<br /><br />What work are you two involved in?<br /><br />I think you appreciate each other more with 'spaces in your togetherness' as Gibran said.<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-13578815434994724692009-07-25T12:05:02.188+10:002009-07-25T12:05:02.188+10:00Good day, Delwyn. Nice to visit again!
Your hu...Good day, Delwyn. Nice to visit again! <br /><br />Your husband and son's passions remind me of my childhood. My dad was exactly the same as Beloved in his desires! My mother did not share the passion, so dad would take us four kids to the local drag strip each Sunday and give mom a break for the day. That she did like! In the meantime, my siblings and I learned to love the smell of gas, that it was OK to get greasy dirty in the pit, and to feel the rumble rush through our seats in the grandstand. (if Beloved is sharing, we had a '39 Ford Pick Up Truck, a '57 Studebaker Golden Hawk, and a '67 Pontiac Firebird.)<br /><br />But enough reminiscing...I totally agree with the idea that marriages benefit from two individuals who share common goals but remain independent in thought. My Darling's passions lie more in the outdoors and mountains. I like to tag along sometimes, but I also don't mind being left behind for a quiet weekend of reading, writing and solitude. Since we work together, some time apart is a good thing, too. My heart still skips a beat upon his return...<br /><br />Have a lovely weekend!Cyndyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01365918364420231384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-31087248133608069872009-07-25T11:26:23.635+10:002009-07-25T11:26:23.635+10:00Hello Louciai /Lynne
thank you for dropping by he...Hello Louciai /Lynne<br /><br />thank you for dropping by here. I am glad you found some common elements. I look forward to further chats with you. I am returning to read more of your lovely and inspiring blogs.<br /><br />I did track down the gifts from the sea to give to someone as a gift not too many years ago, but like you this one was given to me about 30 years ago...<br /><br />I love Rohinton Mistry's writing ...I am just looking for a quote of his but can't lay my hands on it...next time...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-75516187159393155492009-07-25T11:16:15.028+10:002009-07-25T11:16:15.028+10:00Hello Wanda, my green soul mate...
My aunt gave m...Hello Wanda, my green soul mate...<br /><br />My aunt gave me The Gifts from the Sea when I was young and I loved it then. It made me think a lot about being a woman and a mother and a separate person...Actually it complements this post very well don't you think?<br /><br />That's as close as I get to the beasts, see my reflection in them. I have never ever driven in them...<br />I think I would feel a goose...<br />Most are left hand drive, and many just for show so cannot be driven around the streets...the insurance would be excessive...the get trailered to events.<br /><br />Beloved's passion began very young. Before we were married we had a left hand drive Camaro in NZ and one day I was in a hurry to get to a Uni exam. On the way into town some road workers tried to flag me down and I kept on driving. When I stopped to make a quick deposit at the bank the car would not start again. The road workers had been trying to tell me the radiator was boiling and steaming... so I then had to run for 15 mins to make the exam on time...and I got a parking ticket for leaving the car there all morning...I wrote a nice letter and got off the fine which in student days would have been tough to find. I can't remember if I passed the exam...<br /><br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-21262623252089914292009-07-25T11:05:51.042+10:002009-07-25T11:05:51.042+10:00Good morning Steven
Yes it's that re-meeting ...Good morning Steven<br /><br />Yes it's that re-meeting daily that is exciting - fitting back together like a jigsaw...enjoying the closeness and the joining but knowing that you can be apart...and can follow your own path...as well as be a part of the unit.<br /><br />When I was first married - very young - I became very disillusioned and I think it was just that, as you said...I was somehow expecting that I was going to be subsumed into this glorious entity where everything was oblivion...ha ha<br /><br />Beloved carried on as if not much had changed, in his quiet unassuming self contained way and I was left high and dry, wondering where in the hell I was...<br /><br />It took a while to realise that, while we had goals and plans and mutual interests and activities, I had my own life to make...<br /><br />thanks for your thoughtful comments...I always appreciate the effort...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-69415790952567021592009-07-25T10:58:23.953+10:002009-07-25T10:58:23.953+10:00Hi there Aleks
That would be very nice Aleks but ...Hi there Aleks<br /><br />That would be very nice Aleks but until then let's keep chatting...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-88184381244464064862009-07-25T10:57:35.032+10:002009-07-25T10:57:35.032+10:00Thanks Meri
There is a lot of give and take and c...Thanks Meri<br /><br />There is a lot of give and take and compromise in marriage but I feel it is also important to maintain your own identity and follow your own bliss. <br /><br />I have friends whose relationships are more enmeshed where they see themselves as a unit doing everything together agreeing on all their interests and activities. While it may work for some it wouldn't for me and I see it as a renunciation of the individuality, often at one partner's expense in sublimating herself to the other's more powerful sway.<br /><br />To me that is not love. To me love is doing everything to assist the spiritual development of my partner and myself whilst not at the expense of the other's growth.<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-78145291161345369492009-07-25T10:50:40.419+10:002009-07-25T10:50:40.419+10:00Hi Marion,
I hope it is a little cooler for you t...Hi Marion,<br /><br />I hope it is a little cooler for you today. It is here...<br />But no rain expected to dampen the Mopar Sunday tomorrow thankfully....<br /><br />I found the little inexpensive figurine in the Honolulu markets - you know the ones right on Kalakau Ave in Waikiki, about 30 years ago on one of my first trips there. The vendor told me it was Lee Pak Jang - a scholar, I must google him and see if he existed....I wrote the name under the figure...<br /><br />His joyful spirit appealed to me.<br /><br />happy days MarionDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-55093325482834547642009-07-25T10:44:31.827+10:002009-07-25T10:44:31.827+10:00Morning Margaret
How are you today?
I have just ...Morning Margaret<br /><br />How are you today?<br /><br />I have just hobbled over to the garage to check on the cars. The purple one is a Challenger and the yellow one has already gone...they are being loaded onto the carrier for the big day tomorrow. He only collects mopars and has quite a stable of them... He is taking about eight with him this time to show...The Chrysler company, amongst others, now sponsor his day so it has mushroomed over the years into quite a big event, with over 120 racing their mopars and thousands of spectators plus show and shine and the Chrysler exhibits... Oh what fun...if that is your cup of tea...<br /><br /><br />and yes it is zen-like for him...he can while away many happy hours engrossed in sanding little parts back and repainting them...<br />reassembling...<br /><br />The mirror was the bonnet and the windscreen of the purple car...<br /><br />The net of fireflies is a delightfully presented anthology of Haiku with 'Haiku paintings', translated by Harold Stewart, Charles E Tuttle Co Publishers Vermont, 1960.<br /><br />have a happy day my friend<br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-25690530924186397912009-07-25T09:22:52.269+10:002009-07-25T09:22:52.269+10:00Delwyn, you have such a creative and artistic mind...Delwyn, you have such a creative and artistic mind! This was a lovely presentation of duality in life. I found myself thinking of a book I mentioned to Dan: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance. He found his zen in doing just the things your husband does. What are those cars in your garage, btw? I'm pretty sure they're antiques; we have a '66 Corvette in our garage that looks something like the era of your Muscle Cars. And you look so trim in the mirror--I don't think you need upper body workouts! I find we have many of the same books, too, but what is A Net of Fireflies? Sounds intriguing! Poetry? Thanks you, Delwyn! xxoxMargaret Pangerthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09995968579194433270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-86221892779194650502009-07-25T03:05:23.430+10:002009-07-25T03:05:23.430+10:00Delwyn, I have an older sister who loves cars as m...Delwyn, I have an older sister who loves cars as much as your husband. She drives a Camero and used to race cars. BTW, your husband's cars are fabulous! (Like y'all, I'll be married 37 years in September.) It does take lots of compromise and understanding...<br /><br />I had to chuckle perusing your books because I have all but one of the books you posted. (Great minds think alike, no?) I enjoyed reading "A Fine Balance". It was an amazing book. I'm a student of world religions and love the journey my studies have taken me on. <br /><br />I totally lusted after your little figurine of the Chinese scholar at the desk writing. It's so beautiful!!!! Thanks for sharing your heart. Blessings!!Marionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14786883679294446945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-41655778141886213882009-07-25T02:09:20.280+10:002009-07-25T02:09:20.280+10:00BRAVO! Such a hard place for most couples to get t...BRAVO! Such a hard place for most couples to get to; such a soft place for love to continue to bloom.Merihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07024443046207501650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-62384925698558767522009-07-25T00:37:02.929+10:002009-07-25T00:37:02.929+10:00This comment has been removed by the author.Alekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07514059217994184072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-79715039324770474222009-07-24T23:11:30.976+10:002009-07-24T23:11:30.976+10:00what a loving and lovely piece of writing and phot...what a loving and lovely piece of writing and photography delwyn! <br />letting go of the fantasy of a mirror image in your life partner is one of the first and best learnings i think you can make. others would disagree. for me, it's the deeper synchronicities, the acceptance, the patience, and as you so beautifully put it, to be able to "come back to meet in many other areas". thanks for this delwyn. stevenstevenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14132104804524716898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-84497753309414959092009-07-24T22:10:59.122+10:002009-07-24T22:10:59.122+10:00PS. I'm adding a link to your blog from my Déc...PS. I'm adding a link to your blog from my Décolleté site. :-)Lynne with an ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00320166770541319601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-51189640829674882952009-07-24T22:07:15.887+10:002009-07-24T22:07:15.887+10:00Differences make life more interesting I think...a...Differences make life more interesting I think...and opposites do attract.<br /><br />"Gift from the Sea" is a special book for me...I loved it...and will gift it to my granddaughters in time.<br /><br />On your reccomendation of "A Fine Balance"...I will make sure to read it Delwyn! <br /><br />The restored cars are impressive, as was your use of them for the reflected image of yourself!<br /><br />Take care!<br />WandaWanda.....https://www.blogger.com/profile/00551160819558198338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-62499391912375401582009-07-24T22:05:58.608+10:002009-07-24T22:05:58.608+10:00What a wonderful glimpse into your life, love, hom...What a wonderful glimpse into your life, love, home, philosophy, family dyanamics, reading preferences, humour...in just one post! I had a big smile on my face all the way through. <br /><br />I, too, have enjoyed many of the books featured in your photos. It was surprising to see "A Gift From the Sea" there as I haven't seen or thought of it for years but it was a favourite of mine...longer ago than I care to think. But what is time? And isn't "A Fine Balance" a great book!<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by Ragzedge. It's lovely to meet you.Lynne with an ehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00320166770541319601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-33631573719028978942009-07-24T20:53:32.441+10:002009-07-24T20:53:32.441+10:00Hello Bonnie, sister separated at birth...
I love...Hello Bonnie, sister separated at birth...<br /><br />I love that... 5 authors in common, wow, we are attuned...<br /><br />and that's yes to all the mentioned commonalities except the mountain view, but I will do soon...<br /><br />I am glad we have met in the ether Bonnie...It is so good to meet someone with many of the same reference points... you then have a headstart with a mutual understanding and rapport...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-60208822214717177472009-07-24T20:47:56.301+10:002009-07-24T20:47:56.301+10:00Thank you Julie
For much of that peace and harmon...Thank you Julie<br /><br />For much of that peace and harmony I need to thank Beloved, he makes room for it happen in his quiet unobtrusive way...<br /><br />Happy daysDelwynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16813713107604750354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-25946393023002779142009-07-24T20:30:41.225+10:002009-07-24T20:30:41.225+10:00Hi Delwyn:
I am wondering if we were separated at...Hi Delwyn:<br /><br />I am wondering if we were separated at birth? :) As I read your post, I felt as if I were looking into a mirror. Bookshelves with identical books, and sprinkled with buddhas here and there. (I love Campbell, Jung, Yalom, Moore, Hillman, etc.) The description of a beautiful entente with a partner of many years who has different (even separate) yet valid interests. Right down to the little pieces of paper (bookmarks?) peaking out of some of your books - and if like mine - have notes scribbled on them. BTW, I also keep a book of quotations . . . What else . . . Oh yes, a sun room with wicker or ratan furnishings, a river outside your window, and I believe you also have a mountain view - as do I. That's why in visiting your blog I feel very much at home.Bonnie Zieman, M.Ed.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00282469017360136275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-155836879539082676.post-3552494739083991512009-07-24T20:00:38.276+10:002009-07-24T20:00:38.276+10:00i love this post for many reasons...the sentiment ...i love this post for many reasons...the sentiment it expresses, the books to seek out, but mostly for the calm sense of peace it projects...beautiful.<br /><br />xox,<br />/juliejulochkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10884096685015570257noreply@blogger.com